50 Ways To Practice Self-Care
Being kind to yourself isn’t a luxury… it’s a necessity.
It also isn’t an act of selfishness. Practicing self-care means that you’re willing to accept yourself and acknowledge the fact that you have both strengths and weaknesses. When you take care good care of yourself, you also set the standards for how you want to be treated by others.
One of my friends has two small kids and I always laugh when she tells me that sometimes she locks herself in her pantry with a bottle of wine, some crackers, and her favorite salad. Away from the kids and her partner, even if it’s just for 10 minutes. She calls it her “me time” and always says that she can’t pour from an empty cup unless she first refills hers. And she isn’t referring to wine. :)
I happen to agree.
It’s not always easy, especially if you love staying busy, working and taking care of others. You might even feel a little guilty about taking some time out for yourself. BUT, we all need to show ourselves a little extra love at times. Better yet, make it a habit. Whether it be turning off your phone for a few hours or giving yourself a little day off once one a while.
1. Have a mini declutter session.
2. Watch your favorite movie. For the 20th time.
3. Take a long bath.
4. Burn your favorite candle.
5. Jump on your bed. Like when you did when you were little (come on, when was the last time you did this?).
6. Turn off your phone for a few hours.
7. Meditate (you can start right here).
8. Have a mini pamper session.
9. Throw your favorite jammies in a dryer for a few minutes so they’re nice and warm and put them on as soon as you come home from work.
10. Go for a run or a long walk.
11. Write yourself a love letter.
12. Wear your favorite perfume.
13. Put some music on and dance away.
14. Prepare your favorite meal.
15. Go outside, lie on your back and watch the sky.
16. Write down 10 things you’re grateful for.
17. Give yourself a manicure.
18. Treat yourself with your favorite dessert.
19. Buy yourself some flowers.
20. Do something for the first time; it can be something very simple, like trying out a new restaurant for the first time, all by yourself (you can always order your food to go, if you’re too uncomfortable eating alone at the table).
21. Have an intense workout session.
22. Do something that you’ve been putting off for a while.
23. Get up early, make yourself breakfast and enjoy your morning tea in peace and quiet. No TV, no radio, no phone, no laptop.
24. Throw yourself a little party. Buy a bottle of your favorite wine, grab some takeout and read through all the magazines you’ve been hoarding. Maybe watch some mindless TV?
25. Slow down and be present. This post will show you how.
26. Listen to music. Just close your eyes and listen to music.
27. Create a vision board for yourself.
28. Call someone you love.
29. Read a good book.
30. Take a nap.
31. Stretch.
32. Create positive, loving affirmations for yourself.
33. Organize your closet.
34. Plan a fun weekend for yourself and your partner/friends/family. It can be something as simple as game night and pizza.
35. Binge-watch your favorite TV show on Netflix.
36. Try a new, healthy recipe.
37. Do something creative.
38. Have a cup of coffee or tea from your favorite coffee place or.
39. Write a thank you note to someone. Just because.
40. Do something you love.
41. Sleep in on the weekend.
42. Spend some time in the sun.
43. Have a little girls’ night in.
44. Kick-start your day with some positive affirmations.
45. Have a lunch date with a friend.
46. Cuddle with your pet. Or with your human ;) .
47. Make a playlist of your favorite songs at the moment.
48. Go to a museum.
49. Write down a long list of things you love.
50. Watch a stand-up comedy show.
How do you practice self-care? How often do you take small brakes, just for yourself?
Here’s a pinnable version of this post:
DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE, PRINTABLE LIST
Do you practice Self-Care on regular basis? What are some of your favorite ways to show yourself some love?
82 Comments
thefashionfolks
July 27, 2016 at 9:27 amThese tips are so good, loved reading this! Go to a museum or get up early in the morning always works! Xx
http://www.thefashionfolks.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:10 amThank you! :)
Aleksandra // bunniesaremagic
July 27, 2016 at 10:02 amI am madly unwell today and all I can think about is warm PJs and tea and Netflix and maybe buying some flowers on a way home, but here I am, still at work. Really behind on the self care!
(And I need to finish a blog post too – really? Why do I always leave things to the last possible moment and hope for a flu not to strike again?)
So I’d add 51. Try to have everything prepared in advance.
And maybe point 52. Learn how to say no to your boss :)
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:11 amHope you’re feeling better now! And yes, both of those can totally be added to this list :)
Caitlin Louise
July 27, 2016 at 10:02 amThese are great tips! Love them! xxx
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:11 amThank you!
Lauren Victoria
July 27, 2016 at 10:20 amGreat tips! I really need to take more time out for self-care. It’s so important, in particular when you suffer with mental health xx
Lauren | itslaurenvictoria.blogspot.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:11 amThanks so much Lauren!
Amanda Elizabeth
July 27, 2016 at 10:48 amIt’s amazing how much better I feel when I actually take the time to shave my legs and give myself a mani/pedi!
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:13 amHaha yes! Same here!
Millie Robinson
July 27, 2016 at 11:43 amLovely post! Buying fresh flowers always makes me so much happier! x
http://www.abeautyromance.com
http://www.abeautyromacne.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:17 amThanks Millie!
Jen
July 27, 2016 at 11:57 amYup, per usual…pinning another one of your posts! <3
http://decoratethesoul.blogspot.com/
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:18 amAww haha thanks so much Jen! <3
Truc Pham
July 27, 2016 at 12:00 pmThis list is great! Such a lovely post!
http://livingblissfullybalance.weebly.com/
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:20 amThank you!
Jess | The Indigo Hours
July 27, 2016 at 12:09 pmSome lovely ideas here! If I thought my bed could stand me jumping on it these days, I’d totally be doing that right now ♥
Jess xo | The Indigo Hours
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:20 amHaha :) It’s actually one of my favorite things to do when I feel down. It puts a smile on my fave in a heartbeat. :)
Megan Clarke
July 27, 2016 at 12:31 pmTurn off your phone for a few hours is the best, it means you can totally relax without distractions!
http://www.whynotblog.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:21 amYes! I love turning off my phone, otherwise, I can’t relax.
Missy Quigley
July 27, 2016 at 12:33 pmPinning! Love it!
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:21 amYay, thanks Missy!
Katie
July 27, 2016 at 2:23 pmThis is literally so brilliant. What beautiful ideas & I love the emphasis on the importance of just being selfish, having alone & quiet time.
Katie // Words by Katie
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:24 amThank you Katie!
Sonini 92
July 27, 2016 at 3:12 pmOMG this post its perfect now ’cause the holidays. There are too many things to do and we never remember.
XOXO
Pretty Little Lawyer
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:27 amThank you!
Keri Blair
July 27, 2016 at 4:15 pmI like suggestion 1-50!
http://www.thestylestudiobykb.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:27 amHehe, thank you so much Keri!
Rosie von Waldherr
July 27, 2016 at 4:19 pmLOVE this! I think decluttering is one of the best things to do in order to be able to relax! A manicure and a good candle burning in the background – while reading a book (or my favorite blogs) – also always do the trick ;)
xoRosie// Rosie’s Life
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:28 amThanks so much Rosie! I love giving myself a little mani session- it always relaxes me!
Biana Perez
July 27, 2016 at 4:30 pmYes to all of these – every last one! xo, Biana BlovedBoston
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:31 am;)
Toni Clarke
July 27, 2016 at 4:41 pmLove the positive message of this post, it really is the little things that can cheer me up. Lying down outside, looking up at the sky with music in my ears sounds perfect on a hot summer’s day! I also love going for a killer workout at the gym or decluttering my makeup collection – great tips! :)
Toni x
http://www.clarkecouture.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:37 amThanks Toni! I love a good, exhausting workout too! Such a good stress-reliever! :)
Camille Beygui
July 27, 2016 at 5:57 pmAwesome post ! Thanks for sharing
Xoxo
http://fashionbackyard.blogspot.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:37 amThanks!
Gitana Deneff
July 27, 2016 at 7:38 pmLOVE THESE. Saving to a blog lovin folder. <3 You go girl! I especially love the 'have a mini de-clutter session" one. I'm always looking for an excuse to organize and declutter something.
Gitana | Books & Bellinis | Instagram
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:38 amThanks Giana, I love a good de-cluttering session :)
Jen Dang @ Skirt The Rules
July 27, 2016 at 9:25 pmI couldn’t agree more with this! Buying flowers, burning candles and taking baths are all things I need to do more of!
xo Jen
Skirt The Rules
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:38 amYes! :)
Katie S.
July 27, 2016 at 9:29 pmThese are fabulous. I always try to take time out for me every day. I have no problem coming off “selfish” even though it isn’t. I’m an administrative assistant so I need all the time I can have to take care of myself after taking care of everyone else all day. I LOVE to come home and soak my feet in water with Epsom salt. I love going out and taking nature photography. There’s so many good gardens in Philadelphia and Delaware and, of course, the shore. I try to take time every day to knit, which is a new obsession of mine. And I sing every day!!
Katie
OverTheMoony.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:42 amThank you Katie! I love a good Epsom salt bath, my favorite one is eucalyptus and mint- smells so amazing and always puts me in a good mood. I love singing too! I get really loud with it sometimes haha :)
Natasha Keele
July 27, 2016 at 9:31 pmIt’s so easy to get caught up in the everyday demands and responsibilities, but we definitely need to take time to care for ourselves.
It’s funny how the 50 things that you listed don’t require much time to do and are simply easy to make time for.
This year alone I’ve been praticing a morning routine that consists of me waking at 5:30AM/6AM to write in my journal, drink water (favorite drink lol), read for 40 minutes, stretch, and just simply think.
Thanks for this post!
– Natasha
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:43 amYes, totally agree Natasha! Water is my favorite drink too! haha :) That sounds like a really lovely morning routine, mine is a bit similar to that and ever since I started it, I just feel so well-rested, and happy! :)
Brooke
July 27, 2016 at 11:23 pmThese are great Ideas. Self-care is so important! I love the one about cuddling with your pet or your human. A cuddle session always makes me feel great. I do this all the time with my dog and my boyfriend. :)
-Brooke
http://www.beautydecorandmore.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:44 amYes! I love a good cuddle session! :)
Moriah Conant
July 27, 2016 at 11:52 pmI love this! I have been learning a lot about self care this past year, and I am grateful to have more suggestions :)
http://thelordismyteacher.blogspot.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:45 amThank you Moriah!
Jacqueline Sin
July 28, 2016 at 12:06 amI love these ideas! It is so important to give yourself some TLC from time to time and I happen to be the happiest after I have worked out or have gone for a walk on my own :) It makes me feel so refreshed! xx
Jacqueline | Sail Away to Neverland ♡
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:46 amLove going for long walks!
Kathy
July 28, 2016 at 12:09 amI love going for a walk especially before dusk, it’s so calming!
Kathy x
http://www.alongcamekathy.blogspot.co.nz
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:58 amYes!
Ambar Syed
July 28, 2016 at 6:18 amSuch lovely tips Paula – I love the pinterest version of the post as well :)
– Ambar x
http://www.herlittleloves.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:59 amThank you Ambar! So happy you liked it! :)
Darina
July 28, 2016 at 10:18 amVery useful and awesome post, I pinned it directly to re read it! I love early mornings to enjoy my breakfast…
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 9:59 amThank you Darina! I love my early morning routine, too. ;)
Trecee Hutchinson
July 28, 2016 at 10:37 amI love this post. I always like to declutter or cook when I need some time to myself.
Trecee
http://treceefabulous.blogspot.com/
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 10:02 amYes, I love cooking when I’m stressed or need a little break :)
Emma Engmark
July 28, 2016 at 11:22 amI love all of your posts. They are always so useful! Thank you, yet again.
http://tealattewithstyle.com/
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 10:03 amThank you so much Emma, so happy you like them!
Kiss & Make-up
July 29, 2016 at 4:50 amGreat ideas! Yes to long hot baths! And chocolate ALWAYS works for me as well :-)
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 10:06 amLove a good, hot bath too! :)
Sophie
July 29, 2016 at 9:29 amIt’s true that it is important to take care of yourself! if we are more relaxed and happy, people we love will also enjoy our good mood!
http://www.nobletandem.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 10:09 amYes!
Stella
July 29, 2016 at 4:32 pmAmazing tips! I love pampering myself! It became so rarely and this although it’s so important for the soul!!
Thanks for sharing and remembering!
♘ http://www.sugarpopfashion.com ♘
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 10:09 amThanks Stella!
Momina Arif
July 30, 2016 at 8:58 am16, 21, 22, 27, 46, that’s what i’m gonna do. thank you so much for sharing this delightful list
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 2, 2016 at 10:10 amYou’re very welcome Momina, thank you for visiting! :)
Laura Clayderman
August 17, 2016 at 1:51 amlove this post!! so helpful and inspiring to all people who need selfcaring :)
xx,
http://lalainlaland.blogspot.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
August 19, 2016 at 5:13 pmThank you Laura!
Martine - MeUnfinished
September 28, 2016 at 9:32 pmI actually read the whole list and Loved it all. Thanks for this great post. I have been passing it along to others too ?
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 21, 2017 at 8:42 pmThank you so much!
Jenelle Witty
October 2, 2016 at 11:35 pmOh my! I do a lot of these!
xx Jenelle
http://www.inspiringwit.com/
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 21, 2017 at 8:42 pmAwesome!
Ej
October 12, 2016 at 4:56 amwaw thanks so much ..think gat a lot to do
http://www.fashvo.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 21, 2017 at 8:42 pmYou’re welcome, thanks for stopping by! :)
Emmalisa Tilli
November 4, 2016 at 9:18 amI’m currently doing number 35!!!!!! Binge watching “the crown”……..
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 21, 2017 at 8:42 pmI have yet to see it!
saraa_ps
December 12, 2016 at 4:39 amI loved this list. Thank you for sharing!! I’ll try to practice it more often! How can I save the list on my phone? I couldn’t download it :(
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 21, 2017 at 2:04 pmThank you! The list should open in a new page when you click on it and you should be able to download the image.
MollyB
May 15, 2017 at 11:58 pmGood stuff! Not only is self-care necessary (not just a luxury), but it’s a radically feminist act. I wrote about how self-care can be a form of resistance here, in case you’re interested in checking it out: https://frommollywithlove.com/2017/01/30/self-care-radically-feminist-act/.
Cynthia Y.
June 21, 2017 at 4:58 amThank you so much for this post! Often, I recognize that I am in need of some self-care time, but never have any ideas of what to do (except for watching TV shows, really). So, this is GOLD.