My Best Blogging Tips + Your Questions Answered
Over the last couple of months, I’ve been getting a ton of emails with a lot of questions about blogging.
While I personally reached out to a lot of you guys, I thought that the best thing to do would be to write a post, answering your questions. A lot the questions I get were already answered in some of my previous posts, so I thought that in addition to answering to some of your questions, I’d also share some of my most popular and helpful (according to you guys) posts about blogging.
CREATING CONTENT
One question that comes up quite often is “what do you when you run out of ideas?” The answer is simple: I don’t let myself run out of ideas. I keep a small notebook with me at all times and that’s where I write all my ideas down, as soon as they come to me. Whenever I feel stuck or don’t know what to write about, I go through my notes and look for a topic I like. One thing that I try not to do, is to force myself to write, whenever I don’t feel like it- it’s a quality over quantity thing. I think that your audience can pretty much always guess when you’re posting just for the sake of posting. Whenever you feel stuck, you can always go through one of these:
113 Ideas For A Blog Post For Beauty, Food, Lifestyle And Fashion Bloggers
113 [more] Ideas For A Blog Post For Beauty, Food, Lifestyle And Fashion Bloggers
What to Blog About When You’re Out Of Ideas
GROWING YOUR BLOG
How do I grow my blog? How do I get people to read it? These are also questions I get all the time. Unless you get lucky and your blog grows overnight, it’ll take a lot of commitment and some time. Creating quality content, staying patient and consistent, connecting with other bloggers, commenting on other blogs- this is what will help you grow your blog. Blogging is fun and it can have a lot of fun perks, but the truth is, it’s a lot of work. A LOT of work. In addition to creating content, you also have image editing, networking, answering to comments, promoting your content, making sure that your blog is running smoothly, answering to emails. I’ve been blogging for nearly four years and it wasn’t until about a year ago, when I finally noticed a steady growth- that was also when I decided to spend more time working on my blog; I started posting more often, connecting with other bloggers- you kind of get what you put in. This is why blogging isn’t for everyone- it’s a commitment, especially once you have established a decent audience. If you don’t write for a week or two, eventually people will stop checking in to see if you’ve published a new post. This is why it’s not for everyone and if you do decide to start a blog, make sure that you write about something you are passionate about, something that you love. Otherwise, you will get bored very easily and will eventually give up. If you want to grow your blog, you might find some of these helpful:
Taking Your Blog To The Next Level- 50 Resources For Bloggers
Taking Your Blog To The Next Level- 100 Resources For Bloggers
How To Increase Your Pageviews
7 Ways To Increase Your Blog Traffic
WHAT SHOULD I WRITE ABOUT?
I always get a little surprised when I get this question, and always have the same answer: you should write about things that you’re passionate about, things that you know, things that you like. At the same time, you shouldn’t be afraid of trying something new. My blog started as a beauty blog, but I knew that I wanted to write about more than just makeup or skincare. I kept getting a lot of questions about my photography, so that’s when I decided to create a Photography category. I thought it doesn’t hurt to try, and if it doesn’t work out- no harm was done. It turned out to be a great idea and ever since I’ve introduced that category my photography posts brought thousands and thousands of referrals to my blog- through Pinterest and from being shared on other blogs. Maybe you have a fun hobby, what is something that you’re really good at? People love reading content that is somehow helpful to them, that teaches them something- don’t let them walk away empty-handed. The same thing happened with my Blogging and Girl-Talk categories. I was a little afraid of trying something new once again, but pretty much every time it turned out to be a good decision- a lot of you guys always tell me that my Girl-Talk posts are your favorite. That’s how my beauty blog transformed into a beauty and lifestyle blog.
MY PHOTOGRAPHY
There is a whole category on this so I won’t get into too much detail here. For those of you who ask about my equipment, you can find everything listed in this post. I also have a Blogging Resources section where I list a lot of my resources. If you’re a beginner, this post is a must-read for you. If you want to know how to take bright photos see this post and here you can find out how to take bright photos during gloomy weather.
HOW DO I CONNECT WITH BRANDS?
When asking for blogging tips, another question that comes up quite often as well is “How do I get brands to send me stuff?” I have “blogging” friends who reach out to brands, asking for samples and most of the time, it works- it all depends on your statistic. I personally never tried doing that- after my blog started to grow, brands simply started to reach out to me via email, usually telling me that they like my blog, asking if I want to be added to their mailing list. I also get a lot of emails from brands offering to send me products in exchange for reviews, but I always say no to those. I say “no” to probably 80% of offers I get. It’s important that you value yourself as a blogger, as a lot of people will try to take advantage of you. I will not spend half a day photographing, editing, using my expensive equipment, then writing a post, in exchange for a $10.00 lotion. So, if someone expects me to write a post in exchange for a product, I send them my media kit and tell them that they’re more than welcome to send me a product, but that doesn’t guarantee a blog feature or they can reach out to me if interested in a sponsored post. There’s nothing wrong with writing posts in exchange for products of course, but once you get tens of thousands of pageviews a month, you can easily start offering sponsored posts. When I get PR samples, I am not obligated to write about them and only mention products that I really like- that’s how you know that my reviews will always be honest. The same thing goes for sponsored posts- I only accept about 90% of offers that come my way. You will never see me write about products or things that I personally wouldn’t use. So, if you’re just starting out and don’t feel comfortable reaching out to brands, stay patient. Post quality content and always tag the brands you write about when posting on social media.
I think that three of the best blogging tips I can give you are these: make sure you have fun, write about something you’re passionate about and stay patient and consistent. If you have any other questions, make sure to leave them down below and keep an eye out on the BLOGGING category for more blogging tips.
I also have a Group Board for Beauty and Lifestyle Bloggers on Pinterest where you can share your blog posts. If you’re interested in joining, follow me on Pinterest and shoot me an email with your Pinterest link.
If you want to launch your own WordPress blog and start earning money online, check out my step-by-step guide to starting a blog right here and a list of all my blog resources, including my favorite affiliate marketing programs, right here.
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81 Comments
Samileen
May 25, 2016 at 9:34 amI always keep a notebook too, it’s a great way to keep the ideas locked somewhere, when you are in a blogging rut. And when I’m not feeling in sync with the whole blogging thing, I would simply re-promote my old posts. That way I have my traffic flowing in.
Sam || Ditch the foundation this summer season
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:24 amRe-promoting old blog posts is a great way to bring traffic too, especially when you’re in a bit of a rut- I totally agree!
Jessa
May 25, 2016 at 9:34 amThis was so helpful :)!
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:24 amHappy to know that!
Aleksandra // bunniesaremagic
May 25, 2016 at 9:45 amPhotos are the worst. I enjoy taking pics in general, but figuring out what to put in these so that it kind of matches the topic… Impossible. I should start writing about some more photogenic stuff ;)
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:25 amHahah:) I know I go through this sometimes too!
Isabelle Collins
May 25, 2016 at 9:45 amI so wish I could have read this post when I first started out blogging, it would have helped me so much!
http://www.taintedblues.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:25 amI wish I knew all of this when I started haha :)
Mantenso
May 25, 2016 at 9:51 amI loved this post, so many people underestimate the amount of work involved in blogging, it’s so much work but equally very rewarding!
Tenz
http://www.shesabouthatlife.com
xxx
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:25 amYes, it is!
Kiran
May 25, 2016 at 9:51 amGreat post, I use the notes section on my iPhone to writemy post ideas and add any extra details I want to include, thanks for sharing x
ALittleKiran | Bloglovin | Instagram
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:26 amI use my phone sometimes, too. Helps out a lot when you need to write something down really quickly.
Darina
May 25, 2016 at 9:58 amThis is really really helpful! Thank you for this post. I am blogging for 2,5 years now and I was very concerned about the fact that my blog isn’t growing :( but now I know I must be patient!
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:27 amSo happy to hear this was helpful Darina! Definitely stay patient and consistent, I’m sure you’ll start seeing results soon!
Hayle Olson
May 25, 2016 at 10:48 amThis is a fantastic post! You have really great tips!
Hayle xx
http://www.hayleolson.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:27 amThanks Hayle!
Erin
May 25, 2016 at 10:55 amAh this is very helpful! Thanks so much! Sent you an email to join your group board! <3
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:49 amYou’re welcome Erin!
Phoebida x
May 25, 2016 at 11:11 amI always come to your posts whenever I’m stuck for ideas, need photography tips etc. Your photos are stunning!! xx
Phoebe & Abida | phoebida.blogspot.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:50 amAww thank you!!
Ela BellaWorld
May 25, 2016 at 1:07 pmBefore I started blogging, I never thought it would be so much work and also time consuming. If you love what you do then the rest doesn’t really matter. Having a notebook around and writing down the ideas is great, sometimes when I forget writing down the ideas, I end up forgetting them forever, my memory is not good! :)
Ela BellaWorld
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:54 amSame here! I didn’t realize just how much work is involved with having a blog! I’m the same way, when I have an idea, I have to write it down immediately haha otherwise, I’ll forget it five minutes later :D
Paula
Thirteen Thoughts
Ambar Syed
May 25, 2016 at 2:06 pmThese are some fantastic tips Paula – I totally agree with the commitment, blogging requires a lot of work! :)
– Ambar x
http://www.herlittleloves.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:54 amThanks so much Ambar!
Blossomofhope
May 25, 2016 at 2:33 pmThis is so helpful and you have some amazing tips! xx
http://www.blossomofhope.blogspot.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:54 amHappy to know you found these helpful!
Francisca
May 25, 2016 at 3:47 pmGreat advice, as always. Your blog is always so neat and so helpful – it has helped me a lot in terms of blogging and photography! Thanks, Paula. xx
~ http://www.franciscamay.blogspot.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:55 amYou’re so welcome, thank yo so much for such kind words! x
Rosie von Waldherr
May 25, 2016 at 4:05 pmI really think these are helpful tips for people wanting to put more work into their blogs. People don’t really understand how much work a blog post is, the whole editing, taking photographs, everything…even the layout of the blog, the domain and the hosting (if you go that way) takes time and money.. Thanks for sharing these with us Paula!
xoRosie //Rosie’s Life
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:58 amIt’s a lot of work! But it’s all good as long as you’re having fun doing it! :)
Liz | Lipstick & Confetti
May 25, 2016 at 4:06 pmThis is all great advice! I really liked how you discussed that blogging is hard work. It’s so true and I think a lot of people overlook that.
xo, Liz
http://lipstickandconfetti.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 11:58 amThanks Liz!
Paula Loreti
May 25, 2016 at 6:24 pmThis post was so helpful like all of yours are! I love how you think that bloggin is a really hard think to do. People tend to believe that is super easy but it’s not. It takes a lot of time and effort!
http://www.blossomikebana.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:03 pmAw thanks so much Paula!
The Gossip Darling
May 25, 2016 at 8:54 pmOMG this post is super helpful! Blogging is such hard work. Great tips about deal with brands and reviews!! I have to be more clear about them sending me products and I may not review them!!
Mel | http://www.thegossipdarling.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:06 pmThanks Mel! Happy to know you liked this post!
Raeanne Lydia
May 25, 2016 at 9:07 pmThanks for the super helpful tips! I get discouraged easily, but these types of posts always bring back my motivation!<3
Rae // http://www.raechic.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:10 pmI feel discouraged at times too, I think it’s normal, regardless of what we do :) Thanks for visiting!
Marta Sierra Marti
May 26, 2016 at 4:26 amThose are really great tips!! Keep up the good work!
Kisses,
Marta
http://www.martamademoiselle.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:10 pmThanks for visiting Marta.
Rosy Flynn
May 26, 2016 at 5:44 amI’m still working on growing readership, I think more blogger chats are called for :)
Rosy | Sparkles of Light Blog
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:11 pm;)
Jenni
May 26, 2016 at 5:58 amThat bit about blogging being a lot of work is so true! I’m seriously surprised pretty much every time how long it takes me to shoot, edit and write a post. And patience is definitely key, my blog is growing slowly but surely and I’m more proud of it every day! xx
http://www.shakespeareandsparkle.com/
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:25 pmAww that’s awesome Jenni! Your blog is beautiful, so you should definitely be proud!
The Sunday Mode
May 26, 2016 at 6:17 amReally enjoyed reading this Paula, you’re so right that blogging is a lot harder than I think any non-blogger would imagine!
http://www.thesundaymode.blogspot.com.au
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:25 pmThanks Julia!
Marie Abbott
May 26, 2016 at 8:31 amLove this post! Your blog is such a good source for all bloggers – ones starting out as well as experienced ones. Thanks for sharing :-)
http://www.makemeupmarie.com
xoxo
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:27 pmThank you so much Marie!
Kyla Mae
May 26, 2016 at 1:21 pmThank you so much for this post, Paula. It really helped me alot.
– Kyla | kylasalonga.blogspot.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:29 pmSo happy to hear that!
courtney
May 26, 2016 at 2:34 pmLoved this post! Definitely very helpful! Glad I found it!
http://www.breakfastatvogueblog.com/
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:30 pmThanks Courtney!
Emma Engmark
May 26, 2016 at 4:46 pmSuch a great and helpful post. I love posts like this, since I always want to improve my blogging game. Thank you so much for this!
http://tealattewithstyle.com/
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:32 pmThank you Emma, so happy you liked this post!
Leigh Brady
May 26, 2016 at 5:12 pmPeople forget how much effort goes into blogging! I really need to get mine together much more! There’s always room for improvement! x
– Eternalleigh.blogspot.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:33 pmDefinitely!
Yankified
May 27, 2016 at 12:59 amI started my journey about a year ago and I’m trudging along. Im sure you can agree that 24 hours in a day is just not enough. Thank you for the post
http://www.yankified.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:33 pmYou’re welcome, thanks for visiting!
Joanne
May 27, 2016 at 4:51 amTotally needed to see this post! This was so helpful and I loved reading through it. Also love the pictures you use on your blog. Thank you so much for sharing! I’m totally saving this xx
Life in Blue Skies | A Lifestyle Blog
Kiran
May 27, 2016 at 7:55 amThis is like the holy grail of all blog articles, so many awesome resources. I am 90% certain this is my second comment on this post but I just want to read it over and over again.
ALittleKiran | Bloglovin
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:34 pmHahaha aww thanks so much Kiran!
steff @ brighterdarling.com
May 27, 2016 at 12:42 pmLove this post, Paula! I’m starting to get a mix of spon offers and brands just sending me products and then wondering why I’m not writing a post about it. I am definitely going to just start sending my media kit to them because it’s just a nuisance that they assume I’ll definitely be writing a post when I have a brand I really enjoy willing to pay me to talk about them. I have to be more strict. Great tips :)
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:38 pmThank you so much Steff! I always let the brands know that just because they send me something doesn’t guarantee a feature-nothing wrong with doing reviews for products, but I don’t like being forced to write about something if I don’t like it or just can’t recommend it to my readers. There are so many wonderful brands out there, but some will also try to take advantage of bloggers, so you definitely have to be strict! Happy you liked this post! :)
steff @ brighterdarling.com
June 21, 2016 at 12:36 pmJust wanted to let you know I took your advice today and responded to a brand who wanted to send me PR samples telling them that it won’t guarantee anything/here’s my media kit. So liberating, haha! <3
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
June 21, 2016 at 12:45 pmHaha yes, love it! I just exchanged emails with someone who wanted to send me a top in exchange for an entire blog post and a social media feature. Not happening, lol.
steff @ brighterdarling.com
June 21, 2016 at 12:48 pmI truly hope these people just have no idea how much goes into 1 post. Like you mentioned, between the photos, the right props, lighting, writing, SEO, editing… ohh blogging lol…
Alden Terry
May 28, 2016 at 4:07 pmLoved this post!! So helpful, concise and to the point.
http://aldenterry.com/ xx
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
May 30, 2016 at 12:38 pmThank you!
Shelby @ The Fernweh Wolf
May 31, 2016 at 8:13 amAwesome tips! I am currently trying to grow my audience and it does take a lot of work. Thanks for this inspiring post! It’s nice to see when peoples hard work pays off :]
The Fernweh Wolf / Travel & Lifestyle Blog
xx
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
November 13, 2016 at 8:17 pmThank you so much!
SavBanav
May 31, 2016 at 6:21 pmThis is so helpful! It’s so easy to get caught up in other things that I happen to stumble across, and I’m really trying to get into the habit of blogging more. I’ll definitely start keeping a little notebook for blogging ideas as well.
Savannah
savbanav.wordpress.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
November 13, 2016 at 8:17 pmYay, so happy you found this post helpful Love!
Cat
June 5, 2016 at 5:06 amReally useful tips here! I have recently taken an unintentional step back from the ‘extra’ bits required when blogging…I write 3 posts a week, with photos, and have automated social media posting, but I haven’t put as much energy into it as I should and these tips have inspired me to up my game…thank you!
http://www.moreaboutcat.co.uk
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
November 13, 2016 at 8:18 pmSo happy to hear that, you’re very welcome!
Elliane S.
June 22, 2016 at 12:49 pmGreat post! I also carry around a notebook most of the time. Mainly, because I write a lot of poetry, but now that i’ve started a blog about this topic, I’ll try to use it to scribble down post ideas and general blogging inspiration, too.
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
November 13, 2016 at 8:18 pmThanks Love!
Lauren
July 25, 2016 at 2:22 pmThis post was so helpful! These tips are perfect for anyone like me who needs some guidance and inspiration. My notebook never leaves my side now, and the photography tips you linked to were a life saver. Thank you!!
Lauren | http://www.bonjourlauren.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
November 13, 2016 at 8:17 pmYou’re very welcome, thanks so much for stopping by!
Tabi Bee
October 24, 2016 at 5:14 amAmazing tips! ! Loved this post it really helped me with my blog-thanks! ! I like to write down blog post ideas for the future too ♡ :)
Cindy Elena
November 13, 2016 at 8:09 pmThese tips are so helpful. I just discovered your blog and I am in love with it. I’m a new blogger and I’m going thru almost every post, they are so helpful!
Cindy | http://www.boringclothes.com
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
November 13, 2016 at 8:17 pmSo happy to hear that Cindy, thank you! And welcome! :)