13 Simple Ways to Improve Your Mood
It’s not always easy being happy and upbeat all the time. Having struggled with depression in the past, means that I sometimes need to keep myself “in check”, monitoring my thoughts and feelings.
Practicing self-love has completely transformed my life, it made me realize that it’s okay to do the things I want to do and get joy out of it. During this time of year, a lot of us are affected by SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) which can make you feel moody and lower your energy levels. This is why today, I’m sharing some very simple ways that will help make you feel better, instantly. If you guys have any tips of your own, I’d love to know what they are!
JUMP ON YOUR BED
I know that it sounds silly, but how much fun did you have as a kid doing this? When I have a sucky day, I love jumping on my bed until I start laughing at myself. Instant mood lifter.
BURN YOUR FAVORITE SCENTED CANDLE
One of my favorite ways to instantly feel happier, is burning my favorite candle. I love scents like black bamboo and eucalyptus- as soon as they become fragrant, I feel more relaxed.
AWAKEN YOUR SENSES
One of the ways that I’ve tried dealing with anxiety in the past, would be to stay as busy as possible, distracting myself. Today, I love to do quite the opposite and I have to say that this works much better. I try to calm myself by slowing down, by relaxing and awaking all my senses. Open up the window to let the fresh air in, listen to music you love, take a few deep breaths, meditate for few minutes.
SNACK ON SOMETHING HEALTHY
When you feel down, you’re probably either don’t have much appetite, or get those “bad food” cravings. When I feel stressed, I lose my appetite completely, but I still try to eat regular meals, even if it’s small snacks. When you don’t eat, you might feel even more cranky, you have less energy, so it’s important to make sure to eat, even if you don’t feel like it. My go-to snack for days like these would be a mix of berries and almonds, and some dark chocolate. Also, make sure to eat foods that are rich in Omega 3 fatty acids, as the have been proven to improved mood and alleviate depression.
GET ACTIVE
Physical activity produces endorphins and regular exercise reduces stress, improves sleep, boosts self-esteem and increases your energy levels. Even a 10-minute walk outside can help you feel better.
PRACTICE SELF-LOVE
Do you remember how badly you wanted to “grow up” when you were a kid? Sometimes I feel like we all take so many things for granted. Adulting can be really though sometimes; having to pay bills, going to work, taking care of your home… but there are also so many other amazing things that come with it. I can get in a car, go to my favorite coffee shop, get a cup of coffee and my favorite vegetarian veggie wrap and enjoy every sip and every bite. I can treat myself to a new lipstick or a top, if I want to, I can binge-watch a whole season of my favorite TV show and not feel guilty about it. I don’t do these things too often, because I’m always so busy, but when I start feeling stressed out, I love taking a break for one afternoon, turning off my phone and not worrying about what else needs to get done.
DO SOMETHING NICE FOR SOMEONE ELSE
Because there is no better feeling, than putting a smile on someone’s face.
READ
Have you ever heard of bibliotherapy? It’s a “use of selected reading materials as therapeutic adjuvants in medicine and psychiatry; also guidance in the solution of personal problems through directed reading.” Yeah, it’s a real thing. It’s been proven that novel reading can actually reduce anxiety, and that it has long-lasting results, so next you’re start feeling down, pick up a good book.
PLAY WITH YOUR PET
Spending time with my dog lifts my mood immediately and I swear that he can sense whenever I start feeling anxious. I love the fact that he’s always so happy to see me, and seeing him like that always puts a smile on my face.
TAKE A NAP
Sometimes this is all you need to feel better. Have a cup of hot chocolate or spearmint tea, get under your favorite blanket and take a little nap.
CUDDLE
Because who doesn’t love cuddling? Regardless of whether you’re hugging your partner, your child, or your dog, it’s guaranteed to make you feel better.
LISTEN TO AN AUDIOBOOK
This is also one of my favorite ways to reduce stress. On those days when I feel exhausted, I love listening to a good audiobook- especially when I feel like reading, but can’t keep my eyes opened for too long.
TAKE A SHOWER
Okay, I know this might sound weird, but this is something that really works for me. I take a long shower, wash my hair and put on my coziest clothes on. To make this even better, I put my clothes and my towel in a dryer for a few minutes, so that when I get out of the shower, they’re still warm. This feels super cozy and relaxing.
What are your favorite ways to lift your mood?
47 Comments
Shayah Isabella
January 11, 2016 at 9:26 pmThese are such great tips, Paula! Feeling anxious is one of the worst feelings but a lot of the things you mentioned definitely help me too! Loved this post, Xx
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:01 pmThanks so much Shay! <3
The Sunday Mode
January 11, 2016 at 10:04 pmThere are a lot of these that I love as well, but also a couple things I hadn’t thought of before! Personally some of my favourite simple ways to life my mood is to take a shower, wash my hair and change into super fresh pyjamas :)
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:06 pmThat’s one of my favorite things, too! :)
Kelly
January 11, 2016 at 11:14 pmThese tips are actually really amazing, I didn’t know that reading books can lower your anxiety. I will be sure to look back at this post whenever I’m not feeling my best. I like to lift my mood by listening to music and drinking tea.
Perfect Shade of Mauve
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:07 pmLove listening to music, it’s an instant mood lifter ;)
Darina
January 12, 2016 at 1:19 amThese tips are wonderful! I love to make a long walk or read a good book with a delicious cup of tea.
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:07 pmThat sounds lovely!
TOUCH OF GUCCI
January 12, 2016 at 5:16 amYou’ve convinced me girl – I think I need to go jump on my bed… Haha. I can’t believe how long its been since I’ve done that and I think it’ll definitely be a mood improver! I also love burning scented candles and exercising to improve my mood! x
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:09 pm:D
Akane
January 12, 2016 at 5:19 amThese tips are so true.
A good shower + coffee/tea is really helpful
Akane
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:09 pm:)
Rosie von Waldherr
January 12, 2016 at 6:16 amDoing something nice for someone else, always does it for me! When I’m feeling low I also like to make myself a coffee…the process of making it, preparing the cup, drinking it…it’s just calming for me! I’ve never tried jumping on my bed though xD
xoRosie
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:10 pmOh you gotta try it Rosie! It’s super fun :)
Rebecca @ Strength & Sunshine
January 12, 2016 at 6:33 amJumping on your bed, haha, yes!
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:10 pm:D
Emerald
January 12, 2016 at 11:15 amThe jumping on the bed one is so true!
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:15 pmRight? :)
Sophie
January 12, 2016 at 11:45 amI love these ways to change your mood! Candles are definitely my go-to, especially when it’s a gorgeous satisfying scent! I also like your idea of snacking on something healthy, since more often enough, when I’m down, I end up snacking on chocolate. Which, doesn’t really help me in the long term!
Sophie – eselle x
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:17 pmThanks Sophie! But hey, chocolate is actually a pretty good mood-lifter- as long as you don’t eat too much :D :)
Emma Bought What
January 12, 2016 at 12:15 pmThese are great ideas! I love burning scented candles x
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:17 pmThanks Emma!
Kim Petersen
January 12, 2016 at 1:30 pmYES to burning a candle! Such an instant mood lifter. Also, love to read an old favorite book when I want to feel better, it’s like visiting with old friends. Love this post Paula, hope you’re having a great week! XO -Kim
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:18 pmAh yess! I love re-reading some of my favorite books when I’m feeling a little down :)
Samantha Frances
January 12, 2016 at 1:40 pmLove these! Showering, putting comfy clothes on and reading a book improves my mood so much! :) xxx
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:20 pmThanks Samantha!
Another Ranting Reader
January 12, 2016 at 1:55 pmI haven’t jumped on my bed in ages! That needs to happen soon! I have this really lovely candle that I’m burning at the moment – it smells of a burning fire!
Jemima x
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:21 pmOh that candle sounds amazing!
Dora Toubanaki
January 12, 2016 at 2:26 pmEating makes me happy. Naaah not just that. I would love to jump on my bed!!
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:21 pm:D
Dagmara Klich
January 12, 2016 at 5:36 pmCeilings in UK are so low that jumping on my bed would end up with me being hurt, haha! Anyway, lovely post as usual, you should be a therapist, or psychologist Paula :) I’ve been feeling slightly depressed lately, and I really need to make an effort to eat better, exercise and think more positive as I know that would change my mood. x
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:23 pmHahaha :D Maybe don’t try that one then haha :) Psychology was actually one of my majors in college, before I changed it about three times after that haha :) Thanks so much Dagmara!
Kelly Anne
January 13, 2016 at 5:35 amThese are all great ideas! I love how your suggestions are unique and sound very effective!
Kelly xx
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:26 pmThanks Kelly! :)
Paula Loreti
January 13, 2016 at 9:20 pmThe shower one is the most accurate for me! It relax me so much and I always feel better after taking one. Thanks for doing this post! I’ll be doing some of them the next times I get upset haha
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 15, 2016 at 10:27 pmHaha hope you won’t be getting upset any time soon! :)
Lisa @ Midwest Glam
January 16, 2016 at 1:19 amGreat tips as usual! I love going for walks when I’m feeling down or angry. It really does help you to blow off some steam. Writing is another good one. Sometimes it helps to just sit and write it all out. Even if you don’t intend to share it with anyone.
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 17, 2016 at 1:50 pmThanks Lisa! Walks are definitely great, love the idea of writing, too!
Alexandra Jade
January 16, 2016 at 8:28 pmI love to just blast my music and bake sweets to my hearts content. :)
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 17, 2016 at 1:56 pmSounds awesome to me! :)
Nereyda Gonzalez
January 16, 2016 at 9:27 pmCandles, music, reading/audiobooks and long hot showers are such great mood boosters!
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Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
January 17, 2016 at 1:56 pmYes they are! :)
Nice Mate
February 20, 2016 at 10:09 amThank you, Paula, this is just what I needed today!
Paula @ thirteenthoughts.com
February 22, 2016 at 3:36 pmYou’re so welcome, thank you for visiting!!!! ;)
Madison Grace
February 22, 2016 at 4:40 pmThis is such a good post! Like, actually really helpful. I’m gonna try jumping on my bed. Yes. Can’t wait.
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Laura Clayderman
February 24, 2016 at 12:51 amsuch nice ways to relax and take a moment here !! :)
thanks for sharing<3
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Christina Basil
May 25, 2016 at 11:50 amI think just reading this post made me more relaxed… haha :)